I’ve gotten a lot of DMs saying,

“I didn’t care about that advice.”

“It’s modern and convenient.”

“We used a QR code anyway.”

So let’s clear something up:

We’re not coming for your invitations. We’re not judging your style. We’re not saying your wedding was any less beautiful because you used a QR code. What we are doing is sharing expert guidance based on what actually contributes to a luxury guest experience.

Your invitations are the first impression of your wedding. They set the tone. They communicate formality. They build anticipation. They’re the very beginning of your story.

And in the world of elevated, heirloom-level stationery, a bold digital code can interrupt that moment of elegance. This isn’t about shaming modern choices. It’s about showing you why certain design decisions hold weight—especially when you’re investing in a luxury celebration.

And listen… If you still choose to use a QR code after hearing the “why,” that’s completely your call. Truly. We’re here to support your vision, not police it.

Our role is to guide, elevate, and protect the experience you’re creating—from the invitation in the mailbox to the last dance on the floor. So no, it’s not that we “care too much about paper.” It’s that we care about the entire guest journey—and the tiny details that shape it.

If you ever want advice that feels intentional, honest, and centered around giving your guests the best experience possible, that’s what we’re here for. Always.